I'm an honorably discharged Army vet. I had my first paying job at 11. I have never been unemployed ... View MoreI'm an honorably discharged Army vet. I had my first paying job at 11. I have never been unemployed for more time than I wanted to be. I've been self-employed since 92. I install, sand and finish hardwood floors. If you are taught to value your accomplishments in life you will never lack motivation. If you are taught to value being a victim nothing will ever motivate you.